Grounded, authentic, and intuitively adapted to you.
You are looking for a ceremony that feels significant, not superficial. You want a moment that captures the weight of the commitment without weighing down the joy.
I am Rebecca Nolan, and I help couples in Lancashire create ceremonies defined by "Quiet Luxury"—the luxury of time, presence, and emotional intelligence.
Whether you need the energy dialed up to celebrate a loud and vibrant love, or pulled back to create a sanctuary of calm for anxious hearts, I hold the space so you can simply be.
Meet Rebecca
Educator. Facilitator. Storyteller.
Before I was a celebrant, I spent years as a community educator and parenting tutor. I didn't just teach; I listened. I spent my career understanding the intricate, beautiful, and sometimes complex web of family dynamics.
I know that a wedding isn't just two people standing at the front of a room. It is the blending of histories, the merging of families, and a delicate navigation of personalities.
My background means I bring more than just a script to your wedding. I bring the ability to read the room, to understand the nuance of your family setup, and to ensure that everyone feels safe, seen, and included.
The "Dial" Approach
Your Volume. Your Vibe.
The Elevated Setting ( Up): For when the joy needs to be projected to the back of the room. I use my skills as an educator to engage the crowd, manage the energy, and weave humor and storytelling into the proceedings, ensuring the atmosphere is electric but never chaotic.
The Grounded Setting (Dialled Back): Perfect for introverted couples or highly sensitive families. We strip away the "performance." We use natural acoustics, soothing pacing, and focus on intimacy. No surprise mic-thrusts, no forced audience participation. Just deep, resonant connection.
Quiet Luxury
In a wedding industry often obsessed with "more"—more noise, more props, more adrenaline—I offer the luxury of less.
"Quiet Luxury" doesn't mean whispering. It means, intentionality. It means nothing is forced.
I offer a unique Calibrated Service. During our consultation, we determine exactly where the "dial" should sit for your ceremony:
Less Stress: I manage the emotional temperature of the room so you don't have to.
Less Clutter: My scripts are crafted to be potent and poetic, not wordy and wandering.
More Impact: By removing the unnecessary fluff, we make room for the moments that actually matter.
Navigating Family Dynamics
The Blended Family Specialist.
Marrying with children? navigating a divorce in the family tree? managing complex relationships?
This is where my experience as a parenting tutor shines. I don't shy away from the complexities of bringing two tribes together; I embrace them.
I can help you craft rituals that honor children, acknowledge absent friends, or simply navigate the politics of the front row with grace and diplomacy.
The "Dial" Approach
Your Volume. Your Vibe.
The Elevated Setting ( Up): For when the joy needs to be projected to the back of the room. I use my skills as an educator to engage the crowd, manage the energy, and weave humor and storytelling into the proceedings, ensuring the atmosphere is electric but never chaotic.
The Grounded Setting (Dialled Back): Perfect for introverted couples or highly sensitive families. We strip away the "performance." We use natural acoustics, soothing pacing, and focus on intimacy. No surprise mic-thrusts, no forced audience participation. Just deep, resonant connection.
Why "Quiet Luxury"?
In a wedding industry often obsessed with "more"—more noise, more props, more adrenaline—I offer the luxury of less.
Less Stress: I manage the emotional temperature of the room so you don't have to.
Less Clutter: My scripts are crafted to be potent and poetic, not wordy and wandering.
More Impact: By removing the unnecessary fluff, we make room for the moments that actually matter.
Navigating Family Dynamics
The Blended Family Specialist.
Marrying with children? navigating a divorce in the family tree? managing complex relationships?
This is where my experience as a parenting tutor shines. I don't shy away from the complexities of bringing two tribes together; I embrace them.
I can help you craft rituals that honor children, acknowledge absent friends, or simply navigate the politics of the front row with grace and diplomacy.
